Healing Being - Healing and guiding a dying human being in Moray, Scotland

From birth to death, life is a chain of connections and separations, farewells and fresh starts, beginnings and endings.

Perhaps you are wondering why the subject of death and dying is to be found on a site dedicated to healing.

Isn’t it one of the healer’s tasks to impede death?

Yes. And no.

It is death that makes life precious. Only by learning how to die, again and again, on many levels and dimensions, physically, spiritually, socially, will we learn how to really live.

The words “heal” and “whole” have the same root. Healing to me means becoming whole (again) and this is something that happens until the very last breath and beyond.

Fear of death is often so deeply suppressed that we’re not aware of it until we are unavoidably subjected to the finality of it, when a loved one dies, or when we ourselves are confronted with disease or another life-threatening situation.

This suppressed fear shows itself in our fear of life’s challenges, in our fear of change, in our fear to let go.

These fears will lessen when we are willing to learn to let go, and they will disappear without a trace when we are able to fully accept and embrace the phenomenon of death.

Only then do we regain the deep connection with our self, with our soul, and will we find peace and real love.

Thus we integrate the healing experience of death into life.

Death is an issue that has accompanied me since I was 17 years old, at which time my then boyfriend was diagnosed with cancer and subsequently died. It was a time of intense suffering, fear and anxiety for me.

Over the years, during my own times of disease, depression and suffering, while working as a radiographer in various hospitals, during the many courses and seminars I attended on the issue, I have continuously asked myself the questions: What is disease? What is death?

I have slowly come to recognise that disease and death have been and still are my greatest teachers. They are a constant reminder and invitation to live life fully, truly, now!

When two years ago while working in the hospital, I started to connect with dying people that were lying unconscious at intensive care, it gave me quite a shock.

It never ceases to amaze me that I can do this thing, but I have learned now how to accept this precious gift with deep gratitude.

It is a blessing I would like to share with those people that are willing and able to receive it.

The Healing that happens at the time of a person’s death may involve:

	relief from physical and emotional pain, tensions or fear
	mediation between the dying person and close relatives *
	guiding the dying being into the Light
	supporting the ones that are left behind

* even if the patient is unconscious, energetic exchange of certain information is still possible.

Healing and Guiding a Dying Being into the Light